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3 questions to ask yourself before deciding to divorce

As the question "Should I get a divorce" starts to sink into your bones, you will be facing a lot of emotions, and fleeting thoughts that will be very difficult to sort out. In fact, the internal chaos can be so intense that you might find it impossible to see the situation clearly.

Divorce lawyers commonly meet with individuals in your situation. Many spouses debate over getting a divorce for years before they get the clarity they need and decide to make a move.

Questions for spouses considering divorce

In order to help you in your quest for clarity regarding the decision to divorce, you might want to ask the following questions:

Is your divorce proposition merely a threat? It's tough to admit, but sometimes spouses threaten divorce as a power play, to get what they want in the marriage. Sometimes a threat of divorce is empty, and the person doesn't actually want to get a divorce or isn't actually ready to get a divorce. If this is you, then you might want to think about your decision carefully.

Do I have feelings for my partner? Maybe all you're lacking is the feeling of closeness and intimacy, but you still have strong feelings for your spouse. If this is the case, then you might want to try and work things out. If you can say, "No, I don't have feelings for this person anymore," or, "The only feelings I have for this person are negative ones," then it could be time to end your marriage.

Did you ever even feel like you were married? To truly be married means that you and your spouse think of each other as "we" and "us." Many couples never have this, and they're just two individuals who have come together for a short time to meet each other's need for companionship. Maybe that's you. If both of you don't think in terms of "is this good for us," then you might not be in a true marriage and you might not ever be.

There are a lot more questions you can ask

There are a lot more questions you can ask yourself to get a handle on whether you're ready for divorce. There are also important questions you can ask pertaining to the way a court will view your divorce proceedings, what your asset division and child custody rights are and more. The answers to these questions will also help you gain clarity on the decision to dissolve your marriage.

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